How long would you continue dating a guy if you knew that he is VERY old fashioned... against pre-marital love (not to say I havn't had it, but prefer to wait a looooooooong time befor getting to that), isn't one for overt displays of public affection (holding hands in public seems a little inappropriate), and can't stand dancing. Would these factors (among others) influence your decision to start dating/continue dating a man?

That would depend on what good qualities you have and the way you can make a woman feel and the way you treat her x

As soon as I feel his stupidity.

I think the holding hands thing would do it for me personally I mean it's not even a sexual act.

That would depend on the guy but I think the no holding hands thing in public would pretty much do it. And sooner or later in the relationship I'd want love. So maybe a few months? :/

Refreshing wonderful..after what I have seen on web sites lately,get to know each other..friendship and love have no time limit..life is full of wonderful surprises , Hope you find that special lady

I may not be a woman, but beleive I have some valid points on this topic.

For one... Not holding hands, I mean c'mon.. to me holding hand sin public is a display to other men, saying, "We are holding hands because of the love and closeness we feel toward each other, so get your own"

Secondly, I find that women desire closeness to their mate, and want to know that he is there for them, not to say that this guy wouldnt be, however some women need dfferent levels of connection to a guy depending on their personal needs in a relaationship.

I beleive that being too "old fashioned" in a relationship, opens it up to a lot of difficulties as things progress and get more close and complicated.

Keep that in mind guy's!

It would depend on how well you both go along privately and how well you treated her. If the woman were to become someone special to you, then there's the art of compromise....

I cn handle d no love tin bt HOLDIN HANDS?...Comon!!

You just need to find a woman who thinks like you... and that could be pretty tricky. Mabe you are just too picky about things that dont matter... would you pass up the perfect girl for you because she likes holding hands?

are you for real, holding hands is as innocent as a child can be. it's nice to hold hands with your partner in public, it shows that they are not ashamed of you.

and the love part? you should really marry this girl within 6 months of relationship because maybe you can handle a no love relationship but she can't.

I think it is going to be very difficult for you to find a girl that you have a lot of things in common unless if you date a girl that is strictly from your church.

ok I can see no holding hands in public I am not against it but I prefer not too just cause its my preference...No love thing well ok that might be tough but that depends on the girl not all girls are the same. As long as you cuddle and kiss still that would be good and you dont mind her having some toys..haha..I am sure there are virgins out there as well...Just be patient the right one that your looking for will come along if you havent found her already..good luck...

Six months to year wait not out of question for right person.. The no holding hands in public thing though that's seems odd..