I'm single mom and I have 2 kids. Originaly not from Canada. Have a good job and just dying to make good friends who really care about me. don't have any fammily here in Canada so sometimes get upset and wish to have a good friend next to me on those bad days.
My friends tell me that I'm different but it is just I grew up differently that's it.Hey by the way I'm not that bad person

Baggage. I dont want to wait till 9pm when the kids are in bed just to be able to have love.

Nor do i want to listen to miley cyrus in the car during a day out.

Nor do i feel like having 2 kids running around my shit screaming when im tryna relax.

One kids fine, they dont need as much attention. 2 kids fight eachother for it, cba with that if they arent mine.

not to mention it completely ruins your minge, and i dont fancy goin down on a chick if they had 2 kids unless i actually cared about her.

Hi I dont mind dating single moms, I have dated a few single moms and I enjoy going out with her and her kids. We go to the park or stay at home and play, and who cares if you have to wait till 10 at night to have love, at least your going to have love.

I don't think it should be all about the love... it suppose to be like that... what about other things that u can do??? Ii would ave no problem dating a single mom... some guys are in it for there own pleasure that why they don't want to... and they don't think they can take care of a child which is not theirs...... thats

You know I disagree with the first comment. thats why people like you end up lonely old men! I am a single dad. As for 2 kids, its a heck of alot better than 1 who needs attention all the time. There are times I wouldnt mind another one to keep my daughter company. Long and short of it most all men are only there for the love! and when the real responsibilities come they go a runnin. I laugh at men like that! Kids are great the represent the future, our childish side, and innocence. Anyways mj I think your just lookin in the wrong places for what you need. There is someone out there that would love to be a part of your family and wouldnt run away when the goin gets tuff. wich with children it inevitably does. they need to learn the mistakes that we made and cause the same pain to us we did to our parents....Well mj keep your head up and your heart in the right place and you will find what your looking for..

I have no problem dating single moms seeing how I am a single father, at least most women with childreen tend to be more responsible and I say most women, some of them just never grow up, I think that you need to just keep on trying, I would love to talk to you more, I find it very interesting that you are in the same boat as me.

I agree with babyhawk, the first comment is from a guy who couldn't EVER be true to one woman, will grow old and lonely! Kids are great, but as a single dad i have had the flip side of the coin..... its not just mums who get rejected due to their kids! But if you can't accept my kids you can't have me!

Any bloke can be a father, only a MAN can be a DAD!

Hey there are a lot of single dads out there too that in most cases dont have their kids living with them because no matter how good a father you are a decent mother gets the kids 99.9% of the time. I AM A SINGLE FATHER MY KIDS ARE WITH THEIR MOM i have dated women with children and am torn between two opposite sets of feelings one is to be a father figure to these two new children in my life and try and fill the void left by their missing dad at the same time i feel guilty that i am not doing that on a regular basis with my kids. I STILL DATE SINGLE MOMS and take each relationship as it evolves all we can do is stay posive and be decent.

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the problem with dating a single mom is the fact that you have to care for the kid as well, this isn't a problem, but then you have no right to repremand the child or feel a part of that kid's growing up or development...then you've got trust issues..AND last but not least, the child's father is always going to be lurking in the shadows...maybe wanting to get back in the picture at a later stage and who's to say that the single mom wjavascript:emoticon('')ouldn't consider the latter?

Not all men dont like dating single moms.

I have absolutely no issues whatsoever with dating single mothers,besides the issue of attachment .
I am a very assertive gentleman with discipline and certain values,now in relationships with single mothers most of the time,they stress about not wanting a dad for their children,but if you have a genuine interest in the lady ,you have to take haer with the children as a whole unit,and it does tend to overspill sometimes,emotions and boundary setting I mean.Again how could I possibly date a single mother ,whilst pretending her children or child doesnt really exiit ,no can do to that for me that is anyways.
Furthermore,there is the drama of not wanting to carry on where another an left,so to speak,some men find this an issue and prefer the hit and run tactics ,whilse some single mothers simply nake it very unbearable for you to date them,fi real.As for me,like I started off saying,I love women and feel that everyone desrves a second if not 3rd change,just like water,we all find our levels eventually.So all single mothers Big Shout Out,It aint easy either
Society also does tend to frown upon single mothers and also tends to give them a false sense of security in being parents .