Hi everyone,

I have allways really had a thing for white girls, especially Blondes
i have alot of love for them, but im not a white guy and thats where everything breaks apart, making it so hard for me to approach them. I get very shy when it comes to talking or generally approaching a girl in real life...i am from Srilanka originally and i have a brown complexion...and i really hate being brown :'(
I just wish if i was a white guy, i guess it would have been so easier for me that way...

it seems like no white girls are interested in me either...i really need some help :'( and some comfort.
i break in tears almost everyday, i feel so alone sometimes and it sucks :'(
I am starting to loose all my confidence...
I am 19 years old and still have never had a girlfriend in the past...can some one please advice me

thanks people x

hey
don't loose hopee! you are only 19 years old.. your life has just started and one day you will find a beautiful girl and you will be happy. do not loose your confidence because confidence gets most girls. if you do not have confidence then why would anyone want to stay with you? Also, you have your whole life ahead of you.. and you should not be worried about meeting this girl right now. Do not put all your time and effort into this..

what's wrong with brunettes?!

Man dont lose hope, keep trying, im from a mixed background, native Canadian (Innu, Inuit), i have Carib indian, English, Scottish, Irish, Saudi, Jewish, Germany, the list could go on, I have the same trouble I cannot talk to women, the ting if found with people of different nationalities you just need to go where you could be accepted and try to make a star get some friends and mingle, take it easy then try to get to know women

Whats wrong with dating a girl who isnt white? mabe you need to be a little more open minded... there are a lot of very nice pretty girls you arn't even giving a chance. Plus it doesn't seem fair... if I said I only liked white guys somebody would call me racist. Or if a white guy said he only liked white girls he would definatly be called racist.

uumm, This is really simple. start by loving yourself 1st, if you don't like being black (yes I said it! black not brown) then the blond won't like you. she will definatly think that something is wrong with you.

so don't worry just be happy all shall fall into place.

dude srry to hear your in a rough patch but the truth is no girl no madder the race religion or any other thing you can come up with will respond to someone with no confidence everything in life can stem from being confident from work to love if you show confidence it projects outwards and change the perception other people have on you