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17.10.2009, 05:53 quote

proudcanadian22
Joined: 01 May 2009 Posts: 7 Location: United Kingdom, England, Dorset
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ok this was originally posted of plenty of fish and I know that when you read this your gonna think I am full of crap but every word is true here is the story

ok I just don'yt even know if this is the pright place to post this or even how to begin this, it's gonna sound REALLY screwed up and your gonna think tht I am lying but I kid you not this is 100% THE TRUTH.

Ok so I got this buddy of mine who has this pregnant girlfriend that is according to him his entire world. he's ALWAYS talking qabout how much he loves her and wants to be with her I mean it's almost to much it's ALMOST kinda sick but thats OK he loves her and I am happy for him.

anyway he's my best friend, so much so thaat when she is born he has asked me to serve as an uncle/godfather figure. BTW he is NOT the real dad but he was able to put aside the fact taht she is pregnant (along with other things which we won't get into but he accepts all of it and loves her for who she is.)

good guy right? ya he is except for one thing.

I am a single guy (obiviously or I wouldn't be here) he comes to me and basically says

"you know man I can't believe your still angle, your a damn good looking guy, your charsmatic, your confident, you know what you want in life you should be able to have any woman you want."

I respond with "Ok thankyou but whats your point, what are you getting at?"

"When my Girl gets up here ( O ya she isn't currently in fort mac she is sick and in the hospital and he doesn't want her traveling while she is sick and pregnant.)

"when my girl gets up here I swant you to take a shot at her, I bet she jumps in bed with you just like that"

"what? what the hell are you serious you want me to try and sleep with your wife?"

"ya man go ahead I know you can do it"

"maybe but why are you OK with this?"

" come on man I know you can do it an you know it to"

"yes but again WHY are you OK with this"

"caause man your my best friend why not?"

and yes you DID read this right the soon to be father of a baby girl has ASKED me to try to sleep with his wife, I SWARE thats not sa lie.

THIS after he asked ME to be her GODFATHER

and the strangest part is not only does he want me to do this he KNOWS I could he said it himself

his exact quote was "I know if you want her you could have her so go for it."

so I guess what it comes down to as a parent can ANYONE mothers, fathers whatever can ANYONE tell me what the hell could be going through his mind to ask me to be the god father and THEN ask me to sleep with his wife?

hqas this ever happened? this can't be right

I don't even know if this is the right place to post this but I figure sense he is going to be a parent soon that I should seek advice from other parents

and I mean if he REALLY wants me to do this does that make it OK to try? I don't know I have always believed you NEVER EVER knowingly touch another man's wife but what if the husband asks you to do it?

I know this story is hard to believe but I sware EVERY word is true

 

17.10.2009, 08:30 quote

proudcanadian22
Joined: 01 May 2009 Posts: 7 Location: United Kingdom, England, Dorset
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and for the record not really contemplating this just trying to figure out why he'd even ASK

 

25.10.2009, 18:59 quote

nik72
Joined: 24 Oct 2009 Posts: 1 Location: Canada, ,
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honestly, its sounds like your friend is wanting to reassure himself that his wife will be faithful to him...and he trusts you enough to ask you to test her. however i can not stress enough....DONT DO IT. dont do it..unless you want to lose your best friend..it is soooooo not worth it

 

26.10.2009, 00:03 quote

daveskitten
Joined: 24 Oct 2009 Posts: 3 Location: Canada, Alberta, Edmonton
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Persnally it seemas as if he might be looking for a quick way out of a situation that he is no longer content to be in, yes he says he is happy but have you ever heard the saying "The lady doth protest too much, methinks." (Queen Gertrude, Shakespeare) In this case I think it is the gentleman who protests to much by trying to make you think he loves her so much and then doing a complete about face and asking you to have love with her makes me think he might want a easy way out

 

29.10.2009, 21:57 quote

justme4
Joined: 28 Oct 2009 Posts: 1 Location: Canada, Ontario, Owen Sound
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K, honestly, your friend is an idiot. And honestly what kinda girl is she if she would do it. I would tell your friend that if he loves his girl offering her to you is not proving that. It hink the whole situation just says how guys can be ass holes and how some girls are sluts.

 
 
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