hey so i'm a single mom with a four month old son ... i recently just broke things off with his dad and was wondering how many guys out there would or would not date a girl who has kids and why?? just wondering what my shot is at finding a good guy lol.. thanks.. if your gonna read the thread please reply

well, is not problem to a date with a girl who have a child.

the importatant is if you are a good person.and i really like you and i would talk to you soon...

Well honestly... being younger i would have said no because guys generally like sex more than wanting to think about raising children, at least youngers guys do. I'm not speaking for every guy, just a fair amount that i know... lol. But, since i've grown up somewhat and have a 3 year old daughter, i would say yes to someone else who has children (prefrably one though). I have one I love dearly, and would never want to change that.... being a father is the best experience i have ever had. I think after most guys have become fathers, they don't have that fear of fatherhood (responsibility) anymore. It doesn't mean they are any less playful!!

That's my two cents for what it's worth...

whats wrong with that?



for me, the most important thing is you like her and accepting her means accepting all of what she's got (sorry for my english )

I think that dating a girl with a kid is nor problem at all, like someone said further up you date someone for who they are and whatever they might have in their life... If you are wanting to know if the guys who respond would date you then yes I would but I am younger than you so don't know what you're after..

Jamie xxx

I have never dated someone with a kid yet, but I can imagine it comes with the added pressure.
The pressure of not wanting to screw up, knowing that it won't only affect the girl but the child as well.
There might be issues with the child's dad especially if he comes by very often.
Also the presence of a child automatically makes the relationship a serious one.
At least thats why I am hesitant to date someone with a child.

NO, I DON'T THINK I WOULD DATE A GIRL WITH A KID, BUT THATS JUST CUZ I AM YOUNG. SEEMS TO MUCH LIKE SETTLING DOWN. NOR DO I REALLY WANT TO PAY FOR SOMEONE ELSES KID... I MEAN THAT IN A NICE POLITE WAY OF COURSE

yes of course,I think.

It shows your more of a man to get involed with a women with a child cause you know its not yours and you are putting yourself in the childs life pretty much making you thier gaurdian which i would do in a instant cause i love kids

yes I would,I have no problem with it and if no one would,then who would date her.

Alot of guys do not want the responsibility that comes with having a child , being the father of 3 kids, i dont see a problem. I met my ex when her daughter was only 1 month old, and even though we split up ,(HER) my daughter still considers me her daddy,. The problem that arises is "The Ex " , alot of guys get offensive and think your trying to turn the kids against them.And this causes problems. as far as meeting a nice guy, you have to weed the bad 1.s out yourself, Then after awhile , the love that you receive should be for both you and your baby. By looking at your picture , it shoulndt be to hard to find MR Right..... Your gorgeous.

Absolutely!! Being the product of a similar scenario,I can relate with this.What's the cake without the icing??
Besides, you look like a very beautiful woman! You should have no problem!