I think it depend alot how you handle it and the guy expectation. As one guy said here, it's agerelated too. If the guy is 19 or 29, there's a great difference in level of achievement.

The younger guy may have a whole world to explore, when the older guy already done his share.

Of course, it's a hazard in some way being single with a child, but it doesn't mean you won't find your guy.

The most important thing according to me is no surprise. Don't wait telling him. Breaking the news the sooner, the better. Don't waste time on guy which can't find himself in the situation.

Cause it require alot of responsibility from the guy and if he isn't ready and won't take his share, then it's better for your son to have just one person to rely on. Rather have one good parent, then one good and one lousy.

And how wonderful isn't it to realize that the so wonderful guy you dated was just into it for the love? Cause that's like on all guys mind... And the funny thing about that is that we don't think you understand, but you are.

Just be honest and open about it. Cause I think it's easier to handle the news before you like someone then after. That confuses both of you so save your time for guys which is willing to stand in as dad. Cause in all relationships, you need support, and need to support in all casual matters.

One other thing that may scare (younger) guys is lack of knowledge. What to do when he baby scream and he's doing everything and nothing help.

I'm from Sweden so my level of English is limited, so please don't be too hard on me.

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To me, I have no problems dating a girl with a child. Theres nothing wrong with it, but I think it depends on the level of maturity of the individual in order to date a mother and a child.

I dont see why it would be a problem, kids are fun and full of energy, how can you not like that? lol, not to mention it gives you an excuse to go watch a kids movie..admit it the majority of them are pretty kick ass..kung fu panda..need i say more? lol. Anyway, I think it is more serious, and like was said before the childs father could be a problem, specialy if he gets angry or whatever. I think you shouldnt have a hard time finding a good man for you and your son, you seem nice enough, and attractive though that im sure is only a small percentage of why you wouldnt have problems. Anyway, good luck to you and your little one.

There are many criteria to consider when deciding if I would/wouldn't date a woman, but a child (or ten of them) wouldn't be among them.

I suppose if the child was the spawn of Satan, that might be a factor. Otherwise couldn't imagine the lowlife who would let it be an issue.

Yes i would have a relationship with a women that happens to have a little boy or girl of her own.

However because of my age, i personally don't want any children; so i made that decision and had the operation, so that i can not have any children.

If the women had a preveious relationship that resulted in having a child; then those issues are between the parents of the child. The Dad must be responsible enough to pay out his own child support if, this is a rule of thumb.

However, i have no problem with someone needing an adult around in their life. After all we all must look-up to someone for Guidence from time to time.

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I dont see the problem with it. but personally i wouldnt because I'm to young to settle down. But the fact that a woman has a child doesn't bother me. It shows she mature enough to handle a family. A definite bonus

well being a single father myself to me its simple. but the honest reality is guys would think 1 of 2 things. 1 shes got a kid so she puts out. 2 shes got a kid hmm look she doesn't.... sad but true. even sadder is the times i've been turned down by women because i have a child. its a horrible double standerd. and women are just a pig headed as guys some times...

Kids are not really a problem for most men..but I do mean men. If it is a problem then you have just separated the men from the boys.

its like me I'm with my shorty for 6 years she got a girl I'm not the real dad but I take care of her like if I was guys would be with u but they DNt want to get treated different because there not the real pops and that tends to happen alot with u females but naw u could find a good loving guy that will love u and ur son like his own I know I would my thoughts lol

Well I have mixed feeling on the subject in some instances yes I would have no problem dating a woman with one or even two younger children but theres lots that comes with that if dating turns into serious relationship, feelings between the man in the situation and the children would probably be mixed and hard to understand. I can totally understand if a woman finds a guy to fill the spot and he get's scared off and she gets a broken heart, so my final answer to your question is yes I would go out with a woman with children but only in certain cercumstances other wise no I wouldn't but even the situation arose where I met a woman with kids I wouldn't just blow her off cuz she has kids I still make a good friend if not "boyfriend" I hope I haven't offended you with my answer to your question or my long drawn out way of answering if so I apologize and hope you may want a new friend to chat with say hi if you do I'm not an ass even if i may have come off that way. have a Beautiful day Ciao

look at yourselff ..your really gorgeous , im positive that you can find somewhone who ull click with. and a 4 month or 5 month year old sonn i mean ur 22 shits normal u jus gota get somewhone trustable n responsible rather than fake and phonie ok babe good luck

Hey i would definatly date a woman with kids. for me thats more of a turn on then a turn off because you know she is hard working, focused on life and is not looking to play head games.. if your ever coming to ontario give me a call haha

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